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Monday, December 24, 2018

Egg Foo Yuck by Savvy Mom Ruth Paget



Egg Foo Yuck by Savvy Mom Ruth Paget


I began reviewing restaurants for the Monterey County (CA) Weekly (Circulation: 200,000) via a small column called “Side Dish.”  My second column was about how I came to like Chinese food.

The following article has been modified somewhat, but I still love Asian restaurants for being able to whip up Cantonese refried rice with cooked egg strips, chopped ham, and peas at almost any time of day:

Egg Foo Yuck

My sister worked as a waitress at the Ho-Ho Inn in Detroit’s (MI) Cass Corridor across from the Art Institute while in college.  She brought me to work one day and sat a plate of Egg Foo Yung in front of 5-year-old me.

I quickly renamed this dish, “Egg Foo Yuck.”  Tears ran down my cheeks as I thought about eating it.

The Chinese waiter named George in and looked at me.  He took the Egg Foo Yuck and threw it in the garbage.

He went to the freezer and brought me a coconut and mango ice cream cup.  My sister came in and glared at me.

George said, “She ate everything, so I gave her an ice cream.”

I smiled sweetly at George.  My love for the Chinese, if not their food, began at that instant.

I wanted to visit China one day after that despite the fact “China” was Communist and off-limits for travel during most of my childhood.

In 1978 when I was 14, I raised money with 21 other young people to visit the People’s Republic of China (Mainland China, which was going to be formally recognized as the official representative of the Chinese people on March 1, 1979 when we enter China from Hong Kong.)

I dreaded the culinary side of our visit, because I did not like pork, China’s staple meat at the time.  I was suspicious of all seafood.  My tour mates teased me about all food, saying the shrimp was really cat, rat, or dog or that the dog meat was on the next buffet table.

I subsisted on rice and soup broth for two weeks.  I cringe now when I think of wasting food in a country that still had a collective memory of famine due to The Great Leap Forward, which featured bad planning.  (5 million people died.)

At lunch on a commune outside Shanghai, I tried to play down the fact that Americans had been described in classrooms and in textbooks as foreign devils until just 2 weeks before when China and the US formally recognized each other diplomatically on March 1, 1979.

I was 15 and did not like pork, but I liked pork stir fried with firm, white bean curd and cabbage.  I could not get enough of that and thanked the commune workers at our after-lunch briefing for the meal and admitted that I did not like Chinese food until I visited China and tried that dish.

After graduation from the University of Chicago, I worked for a translation firm and boutique PR firm in Chicago.  We worked with both Asian and European firms.  We celebrated many Chinese banquets at House of Hunan and Szechuan House for clients from both continents at these places.

I learned to say “xie-xie” – thank you – many times.

When I was 31, I bought a wok and a Chinese cookbook. (Lo’s Encyclopedia of Chinese Cuisines.  He used MSG, but I left it out and kept this treasure chest of Chinese food.)

This cookbook listed different cooking techniques and said that this was “just an abbreviated list.”  I had to relearn how to chop vegetables.  I tried several dishes, but my family had its favorites:

-Cantonese rice
-Egg Drop Soup
-Stir-Fried Beef in Oyster Sauce

When my daughter Florence was small, I showed her China on the map and said:

“Rice grows in South China where it’s hot and rainy in the summer.”

I pointed to the North and said:

“The Chinese grow wheat for noodles and dumplings in the North,” I said.

I showed her how to stir-fry Chinese bok choy cabbage in the wok and hoped that she would visit China one day loving Chinese food before she went.

By Ruth Paget, author of Eating Soup with Chopsticks and Marrying France


Note:  Today I use Ken Hom’s cookbooks and Fuscia Dunlop’s cookbooks to prepare Chinese food.

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